As long as a parent has parental responsibility, he or she should have an opportunity to be involved in making of important decisions about their child’s life, such as when the child spends time with each parent and other important people in their lives.
Every situation is different and your family needs to make decisions that work best for everyone involved. Some decisions will be easy to make and some will be hard.
When parents separate, emotions can run very high and it can be very difficult to know what to do for the best. Parents often feel torn between their own feelings and what is in the child’s best interests.
The law is designed to protect the welfare of children and not to favour one parent over another.
As the courts in the UK have made clear, the children of separated parents are entitled to know and have the love and society of both their parents.
Factors Determining Outcome of Custody
If you have ever been involved in a child custody case, or you are about to begin one, you most likely have heard the phrase “best interests of the child.” This is almost universally used to determine custody and visitation issues based on the Best Interests of the Child Standard.
Case law defines this standard differently, but in general, there are certain common-sense factors and themes that appear the majority of the time. The list of factors fall into four categories:
- The historical picture examining each parent’s role in nurturing the child since birth;
- The prospective picture considering the parents’ situations going into the future;
- Status concerns referring to the personality or behavioral traits of each party; and
- the preference of the child.